Is being gay hard

don’t get me wrong, there’s so many things about being a part of the lgbt community that’s amazing, but it’s very difficult, and i’m sure a lot of people can relate. Me specifically I am a lesbian. This week, we were reminded about all of the real reasons why being gay is hard. As the United States Supreme Court heard two landmark cases in the gay rights movement, the glaring.

It’s hard enough being gay, so why aren’t we more compassionate, understanding, and empathetic to others in our brotherhood who live the same marginalized gay status and experience?. Being gay can be tough, whether loving yourself, dealing with frustrations, or finding belonging, it takes gay grit to persevere. Across cultures, 2% to 10% of people report having same-sex relations.

In the U.S., 1% to % of women and men, respectively, identify as gay. Despite these numbers, many people still consider. Scientific research has shown that sexual orientation is not something that can be changed.

what does being gay feel like

Several U. There are many people you can safely talk to about your feelings and questions. People who are questioning their sexual orientation are also welcome. There are some great BC groups where you can meet supportive peers. There are also Boston area groups if you prefer something off-campus. See BC resources: bit. Thank you for being so supportive and for sharing your story honestly.

BC is lucky you are here. I especially appreciate that you told others they are loved and important- so true! Boston College Libraries. BC Home Mission Feedback. Search the Library Submit Search. How do I stop being gay? It really sucks. Just be strong. I have been out nearly 7 years now age 16, sophomore year of HS.

I internalized everything society told me. There was a point where i was looking at the train tracks on the T ride home waiting for a train to come so I could jump Thankfully I had a change of heart and now i look back at that day. That week I told my friends and family I was gay. It is hard here. I am not going to lie to you. Just know that you are loved, you are important and it is amazing to be queer, as it is a valid identity and many people are.

If people do not accept you for who you are, then it is their loss not yours. Self love is a beautiful process, and it is ongoin. I love you. Previous Post Previous Bookworm today!